11 of the Best Sex Toys for Solo or Partnered Sex
Bored, horny or just curious? Either way, if you're experimenting with self-pleasure or your sex life is deadlocked, now is a good time to invite gadgets into the bedroom. Sex toys offer a range of body and mind benefits for both solo masturbation and partnered sex, including stress relief, relationship bonding, improved self-esteem and fun!
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The benefits of sex toys for women
If you've never double-clicked your mouse, let's get one thing straight: masturbation is totally normal, it's good for your health, and everyone does it. "Masturbation can offer women the opportunity to know and explore their bodies in their own time and under their own control," says sex and relationship psychotherapist Kate Moyle.
However, if you are a newbie, shopping for sex toys can be intimidating. Do you prefer a whisper quiet bullet, a mains powered vibrator, or something in between? And what is the best sex toy to guarantee an orgasm (or three)? If you're experimenting for the first time or looking to break up your usual routine, you've come to the right place.
Helping you choose the best sex toy for you
Here at WH we want to help you make an informed decision about when and how to shop because sex is good for your health! But with so many gadgets to choose from, it can be difficult to know where to start. "Look at a sex toy website and find out what style interests you and gravitates towards you," suggests Moyle. "It might sound simple, but things like color or shape can affect how relaxed and happy you feel."
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To help you narrow it down, we've outlined the 11 most popular types of sex toys for women to use alone or with a partner, including vibrators, clitoral stimulators, and butt plugs, and our picks of the best versions of each.
1. The sphere
If you're new to sex toys and looking for something subtle, the Swan PowerBullet is a great place to start. This deceptively powerful silicone ball has nine intensity settings, so you can experiment until you find the speed that works for you. "Start with the smoothest, slowest setting and build up from there," Moyle suggests. "Bigger isn't always better in this case — especially when you're using a toy for the first time."
2. The magic wand vibrator
The next stop on the sex toy train is the magic wand. First marketed as a body massager by the Japanese company Hitachi in 1968, horny housewives discovered its ulterior motives and a love story was born. Fast forward to 2022 and most adult brands are selling a version of the classic device. But what makes it different from other sex toys? Aside from the simplicity of the knobbly design, it delivers a rumbling vibration that some women liken to sexual ecstasy. The LELO Smart Wand 2 Luxurious Body Massager & Vibrator features 10 vibration patterns and a flexible head for easy alignment and precise stimulation. Bingo.
LELO Smart Wand 2 Luxury Body Massager & Vibrator (Large)
R4 299
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3. Clitoral Stimulators
To recreate the feeling of authentic cunnilingus, sex tech engineers have been busy in the lab, and a number of brands have come out with some pretty convincing clitoral gadgets. Womanizer's version of the simulated head has been dubbed "pleasure air" technology (while Lelo calls it a "sonic massager"), and pop star, actress, and now sex toy entrepreneur Lily Allen has given it her seal of approval. Best described as an intoxicating combination of pulsating airwaves mixed with six levels of vibration, the Liberty definitely delivers the intended results.
Womanizer Liberty by Lily Allen
€ 2 199
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4. The Rampant Rabbit
The bunny first appeared in the mid-1990s, made famous by its appearance on the hit TV show Sex and the City. If you haven't seen the series yet, the gadget is essentially a rotating phallus equipped with movable bunny ears designed to simultaneously penetrate you like a penis and stimulate your clitoris, instantly eliminating the need for friends. In the last 15 years, the bunny has experienced a renaissance and now you can buy pretty much every sex toy with bunny ears that man or woman knows. But we're quite taken with Swan's Adore Beauty Petite Rotating Shaft Rabbit Vibrator because they've taken their popular Adore Rabbit design and shrunk it down for those who want more power and less length. Plus, it has a rotating shaft!
The Swan Adore Beauty Petite Rotating Shaft Rabbit Vibrator
R2 799
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5. G-Spot Stimulators
The G-spot is an internal erogenous zone that's blamed for vaginal orgasms. However, it is notoriously difficult for women to climax through penetrative sex alone (according to studies, only 18% of vagina owners achieve this). But for some lucky women, the G-spot is said to provide arousal, orgasms, and even ejaculation. If G-spot play is your bag or you're just curious, let us introduce you to the Gigi. Made from soft silicone, this whisper-quiet vibrator features a curved and flattened tip designed to target your G-spot precisely. With eight different vibration patterns and a two-hour battery life, Gigi is the tool for the job. Or, to double it, try this Womanizer G-spot and clitoral stimulator.
Lelo Gigi 2 G-spot vibrator
€ 3.099,-
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6. Vibrating cock ring
If you're having trouble climaxing during penetrative sex, it's definitely worth investing in a couples toy. For starters, this stretchy cock ring with 7 patterns and vibrating bunny ears is just the ticket. Simply slide it onto your partner's erect member, jump on board and get your ears buzzing to ecstasy. And for him, the tight grip of the ring can make him harder and more aroused, plus watching you enjoy yourself is guaranteed to be a great arousal.
Fifty Shades Freed Lost in Each Other Rechargeable Rabbit Love Ring
R1 299
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7. Love Eggs
Also known as ben wa or kegel balls, love eggs originated in Asia and have been used for centuries to strengthen vaginal and pelvic muscles, thereby boosting your sex life. They usually consist of two balls connected by a thread for easy removal. Love eggs create an oscillating vibration as you move, which some women find very pleasurable, but you can also buy battery-powered balls. Yoni eggs differ in that they are usually made of solid stone or crystal minerals. We love this app controlled vibrating love egg 1 because you can use it anywhere…
Svakom Ella Neo Interactive App Controlled Egg Vibrator
R2 499
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8. Dildos
There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to sex toys, but dildos are usually phallic shaped shlongs that don't always require batteries. Purists who don't feel like synthetic vibrations but still like the idea of penetration sex are destined for penetration during masturbation or during sex with a partner and will enjoy the feeling. We like the Olly Suction Cup Rippled Dildo for its versatility. It comes in two sizes (small and larger), is harness compatible, can be used hands-free thanks to its suction cup, and is perfect for women as well as for vaginal and anal play. It does pretty much everything except cuddle you afterwards!
Malestation Olly suction cup reef field dildo
R789
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9. Strap-on
If you enjoy power games and want to wear the pants for a change, a strap-on might be just what you need. Known as pegging, anal sex with a wearable dildo on your penis-wielding partner can result in explosive orgasms for him, while you can get a thrill from the exchange of forces. Bend over baby, we're going in! And for lesbians or vagina-haves who enjoy penetrative sex, a double-ended dildo lets you penetrate your lover's orifices and your own at the same time. We like this Body Extensions Strap-On Set.
Body Extensions Be In Charge Vibrating 2 Piece Strap On Set
R3 299
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10. App controlled sex toy
Sex toys are getting more advanced by the minute and thanks to Bluetooth technology, you don't even have to be on the same continent as your lover to make her climax. With your smartphone you can control the settings and programs that direct your lover's sexual pleasure from anywhere in the world. We're big fans of the Lovense Lush 3 wearable vibrator as it comes with five hours of continuous use per charge.
Lovense Lush 3 app controlled vibrating egg
R3 899
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11. Anal plugs
Legend has it that in the late 1800s, butt plugs were prescribed as a "miracle cure" for everything from insomnia to bad breath to sick Americans. Given the strict sodomy laws of the time, it's a wonder anyone could sleep. Thankfully, anal play has now entered the mainstream and people are free to experiment both here and across the pond. If you're on the fence, it's important to realize that your ass is loaded with thousands of nerve endings that can lead to some seriously powerful orgasms. We especially like this jeweled metal butt plug because it sparkles. Don't forget to use lots of lube.
Diogol Anni Jeweled Anal Plug (S,M)
R1 149
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*This article was originally published on Women's Health UK
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